by Lynn Churchill, Team ATII Experteer
help X-Y-Z.org by donating as little as a dollar a day. That’s less than the
price of a cup of coffee!”
melting! Mellllllllting! Help us stamp out global warming!”
know that many American children go to bed hungry? Now you can do
something about it!”
estimated to claim the lives of well over 600,000 Americans this year… “
And on it
goes… that cacophony of voices, until you just. Can’t. Take. Any. More.
you’re already stretched so thin. Between work, family obligations, running
errands and running a household, and attempting to carve out a tiny bit of time
for some badly needed self-care (which usually fails), you’re mentally
exhausted. Maybe physically, as well. On top of all that, maybe you’re already
clocking in a few volunteer hours at your place of worship, your kid’s school, or
Now, add to all
that what is known as information overload, and you have the perfect storm of
The term, “information overload” is often said to have been coined by futurist Alvin Toffler in his 1970 classic, “Future Shock”.
But according to Google Books, it was coined by author Bertram Myron Gross in his 1964 book “The Managing of Organizations: The Administrative Struggle, Volume 1”.
was, psychologists and other experts do know that information overload is when
you find it difficult to think clearly and make decisions (rational ones,
anyway) – not because you haven’t been furnished with enough information, but
ironically, too much. A case of TMI to the extreme. It’s too much stuff
for the brain to process and eventually, our eyes glaze over and all we can do
is stare catatonically into space, or curl up in a corner and whimper, “There’s
no place like home, there’s no place like home.”
And it’s as
if the internet and everything it contains is designed to suck you into its
giant vortex and keep you there, spinning ‘round and ‘round forever.
trails of how-to articles, the latest, greatest tech gear, what the celebs are
up to, the local, national, and world news and so forth seem to wash over us in
never-ending waves, as they vie for our attention. Throw in the colossal
distractions of social media and we may never emerge from our Bermuda Triangle
And now we’re
being asked to contribute our time or hard-earned money (or both) to yet
another deserving organization. But we don’t feel as if we can even care about
the plight of one more environmental issue, one more illness, or even one more
person, let alone do anything about it. After all, we can’t save the world.
that we’re cold, uncaring people. We’re just overloaded. There’s a lot of stuff
competing for our attention, everywhere, all the time.
So, what can
we do about it?
start with generalized information overload and common time-sucks.
Limits – You could spend a lifetime in front of the TV, and a thousand
lifetimes online. Many parents set strict limits on screen time for their kids;
maybe this would be a good thing for everyone, regardless of age. Yes, many of
us must be at a computer all day for work. But we can impose limits even there,
by refusing to be lured away from our work by things like social media and
other rabbit trails. Shutting off the cell phone and using our breaks to walk
away and stay away from social media et al. could help, too. Yes, even during the
lunch hour. Maybe especially during the lunch hour.
filter, filter – No one is suggesting you never go on social media or
surf the ‘net. But when you do, be a picky eater at the online smorgasbord. Unlike
most people at a huge buffet, go for small amounts of quality versus quantity.
– Many people seem to feel as if they must do everything. Stop it. Give yourself
a break and delegate. Hand out tasks like Halloween candy, both at home and at
work, along with a generous and enthusiastic dose of encouragement along the
lines of, “I know you’ve got this!”
– Do you really need to be on all those
mailing lists and signed up for all those push notifications? Probably not. Remember
the smorgasbord, and go for the quality stuff.
into the contribution overload.
a picky eater at the smorgasbord of good causes – Think about the things that are
extremely important to you, and really move you in some way. What kinds of
things going on out in the world make your heart sing for joy? What kinds of
things make you so furious you can’t see straight?
say no – There are times when you just need to say no to things that you’re not
passionate about – especially things that you’re not fond of doing in the first
place. Do you really enjoy crocheting for the Doilies for Grandmas
group, or chaperoning those fourth-grade field trips to the local bug museum?
Another consideration is, how important are things like this? Not just to you
personally, but to the citizens in your locale, or state. And in this country.
In the world. How important are they in the grand scheme of things?
something different – So, you’d like to do something to help a cause that is
near and dear to your heart. Great! Maybe you have money to give, which is
always needed, but maybe you don’t. Or maybe you’ve already implemented some of
the above suggestions and now feel you can give of your time, even if it’s only
a little. But the organization you’d like to help isn’t based in your area or
even if they are, you’re just not sure what you can do for them. This is where
thinking outside the box comes in. What are your interests and skills? For
example, I’m a writer. To put it simply, I love writing and hate slavery
(a.k.a. human trafficking). The answer was obvious: volunteer to write for a human
trafficking organization that I admire. Plus, I can do it from my home office.
your skills and how they might benefit your chosen organization. What is your profession?
What kind of hobbies interest you – even if it’s something you haven’t been
able to do in years? For me, one thing I’ve always been good at and loved to do
is ride horses, and teach others how to ride, although it’s been many years
since I’ve owned a horse. I’d love to be able to volunteer some time at a
riding rehab center, but alas, there are none in my area. But I use it as an
illustration to show that it’s not always necessary to transfer your skills in
the workplace to a volunteer position. Sometimes it can be something you do (or
did in the past) for fun.
But wait, you mournfully think. I can’t
possibly do ANY of the above. So, what’s left? Well, if you’re a praying
person, any and all faith-based organizations would appreciate your prayers.
And maybe even some that aren’t faith-based.
Not so much? Then how about putting that time on social media to good use? Once you know who you’d love to support, sing their praises on social, including plenty of links back to their sites. Let people know how wonderful they are, what they do and why, how they contribute to society and help others, and their goals. Shouting it from the rooftops, so to speak, is no small thing, and those served by anti-trafficking organizations especially benefit from this type of promotion. (You’ll find ATII’s social media links at the bottom of this page.)
information overload is essential if we want to be productive and hold onto our
sanity. And eliminating the “contribution overload” is essential as well, if we
want to contribute something more to our society in a meaningful way.
heart. Do your online research – which is screen time well spent. Be creative.
Take your mind out of that cramped box and let it soar free on the wind of possibility.
Then contact the folks you’d like to team up with and brainstorm ways you can
help. They’ll be more grateful than you know.
be grateful to yourself for having done something truly meaningful.